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Intellectual Docility

May 8, 2018

It is good to get others’ viewpoints, others’ interpretation of the world and the way things work.

All of us do this to differing degrees.

Some seem to merely parrot the teachings and thinking of their parents but even in those cases there has to be some evidence that it is the correct view and the proper way to think.

Some get their concepts and opinions from studying others, discussing with people, and so forth, balancing the input with what they KNOW to be true from their own experience.

Unfortunately, for most people, the growth stops at some point.

They get comfortable with what they know and decided nothing else could be more correct or more perfect to hold as opinions on a subject. Intellectual docility has set in.

Though there may be a vast array of untapped knowledge out there, they decided that what they knew now, what concepts and ideas they embraced in totality, was the culmination of all points in the known (or viewed) universe.

This applies to their political leanings, their concepts on race, religion, and so forth; all their biases are covered within the data sets they hold dear.

Many people stuck in this stage for too long a period seem to become upset easily with other forms of knowledge, especially with people of differing opinions. Whether it is religion or science or anything in between, they have come to the very firm conviction that anyone who does not think like they do are “stupid”, ignoramuses incapable of understanding the simplest of things.

Then, like radical adherents of some religious cult or other, they vilify different thinking and might even become violent, trying to force their singular opinions down other, less capable people’s “pie holes”.

This fixidity on a single level of stratum of knowledge may come about at any age.

I’ve known people who formed all their later mature opinions when they were only four or five years old. How they can fixate on such data so young is amazing. How it comes out as a middle-aged person, of course, then sound very immature but what would one expect of a four-year-old intellect. And, no, it never looks very pretty when coming from – chronologically, at least – a mature person’s mouth.

Many people can get quite knowledgeable on certain subjects to which they have become affixed.

They read and study in great depth a plethora of works approving or supporting their ideas; they can quote facts and figures along such lines for hours but when confronted with any portion of the opposing view they can only resort to ad hominem attacks because they really don’t know the subject – or possible variants – at all, no matter how well read on the subject they become.

I’m not saying any of this is wrong. This is just the way it is. I am not even suggesting such things need to be cured or fixed – heaven’s no!

Just as we can learn a lot in this world from the people who reject the borders, scoff at the boundaries, and lead themselves and us into exciting new worlds, new thoughts, blazing trails into new conceptual universes the likes of which have never been thought before, we can also learn a lot from those people who simply stop learning at a certain point, assured they have reached the summit of all available knowledge and that this, here and now, as conceived by them, is truly the best of all possible worlds.

If those of us who truly want to learn as much as we can about all things, these people are of interest as they can show you where you might be doing the same… fixating on one perceived fundamental universal truth (that is really nothing more than your labeling of such a concept) rather than testing the boundaries of reality to broaden the human vista into realms hitherto never even imagined.

Like Agent K said in Men In Black, “Imagine what you’ll know tomorrow.”

And like the Dowager in Alice in Wonderland, “Think six impossible things before breakfast.”

To do any less means you’ve become complacent about the wonder…

Not that there’s anything wrong with such contentment.


What Happened, for Real

October 26, 2017

Hillary has written a book to let everyone know what really happened in the election of 2016.

Unfortunately, neither she nor most of the media analysts really seem to have come to grips with what really happened – what continues to happen – to the political landscape in America.

Once you grasp the reality, the present predicaments tearing apart both the major political parties begin to make a little more sense.

First of all, we had Bernie Sanders, an Independent, deciding to run for the Democratic nomination. I was all for him and he reminded me so much of Robert Kennedy in 1968 who was also cresting the wave of dissatisfied youth.

On the other end of the spectrum, we had Donald Trump, an independent, deciding to run for the Republican nomination. Everyone I knew thought his candidacy was a joke.

Had the Republican Party been saddled with the same sort of back-stabbing machinations that the Democrats had (to ensure the success of their prima donna) they would have ended with a standardized “Republican” candidate on the ticket in November.

During the primaries, it was overwhelmingly obvious as the time wore on that the registered members of both parties were opting for the “outsider”, whether his name was Sanders or Trump. Those should have been the two who took the fight head-to-head in November but for the party manipulations created to ensure Hillary’s nomination.

After Hillary stole the nomination, I was backing the “Giant Asteroid 2016” before I threw my support to the Libertarian candidate, Johnson.

So, what can we take from this angle on the election?

First, the vast majority of both parties were rejecting “politics as usual”, the movements by Sanders and Trump promised to “drain the swamp”, even if Sanders words were a little more politically correct on the issue.

Trump won practically ALL the Republican strongholds in America – whose adherents after eight years of progressive policies under Obama were a bit more dissatisfied than the Democrat faithful – and was able to pull enough votes from the Democratic strongholds through voters who were particularly dissatisfied with the parties’ handling of their candidate, Bernie Sanders.

Yes, it was the Sanders people who decided to vote for Trump because they were not so much interested in continuing the party politics of the past eight years but preferred the public outcry to drain the swamp and get away from rule by political influence rather than of, by, and for the people.

Since the election, we can see the reality continuing in the very fact that the Republicans holding the majority in BOTH houses of Congress are trying to stop Trump on many fronts.

The party itself is troubled and talking – like the Democrats are – about finding their identity. Unfortunately, both parties are looking for that identity within themselves rather than in the roots that got them into power, and those root elements want politics cleaned up. Even the most die-hard faithful of either party will freely admit to the corruption within their own party even while they castigate the opposing party for the corruption within their ranks.

And still, the leadership in neither party has come to grips with what the bold statement of the electorate is: stop the damned politicking, the backroom deals, the selling out to lobbyists and special interests rather than serve the people they have sworn a sacred oath to do.

That’s what this last election has said, loud and clear, and it appears neither the media, the political parties, nor even the public that has created this crisis seems to have been able to voice.

The only one person in the mix who seems to have taken it all very seriously is Donald Trump. He feels he was elected, if not by a clear majority mandate, at least specifically to do a job: drain the swamp.

Is it any wonder, then, that Republicans on the Hill oppose his acts as heartily as the Democrats? He is an outsider, a non-politician, and independent in Republican clothing.

The Media continues to act as if his “own party” is at odds with him. If they dropped their obvious bias for a moment they might realize the Republicans cannot be blamed for this anomaly in the White House.

This President is, for the first time in a very long time, a Man of the People rather than some party machine.

I just wish the larger swath of the electorate realized this golden opportunity.

We may not have another non-swamp President in our lifetimes.

We really should get behind the guy and see what we can push through over the heads of the swamp creatures in Congress attempting to block all his legislation… for the good of their two-party system.


August 13, 2017

In the wake of the violence visited on Virginians in the incident in Charlottesville yesterday, I am hearing more and more hate speech.

Hate the Nazis. Hate the White Supremacists. Hate the Alt-Right.

I am seeing fully conscious and normally rational people reacting with “we should not allow Nazis here” and the usual “my dad died fighting Nazis and he didn’t die to let them come here.”

Actually, people, the veterans who were killed died for exactly that.

In America, we have that complete freedom of speech guaranteed by the blood of the patriots who have fought to defend that right.

Last election cycle we saw the birth of the rallying cry to “punch a Nazi” after seeing a video of a man being interviewed blind-sided by a person who then raced away through the crowds.

Striking a blow against “Nazis”! And the groundswell of support reverberated throughout the Facebook universe with the hashtag “#punchanazi” and everyone rallied around the flagpole.

Yes, the freedom to assemble that we so often take advantage of becomes a powerful voice.

If some group preaching a mantra we find offensive, we choose to exercise the right to assemble right beside them to protest their right to assemble for hate. Yes, and the hate spills over by the anti-protesters and, seemingly very humanly predictable, violence starts.

In this very Christian nation which cannot seem to remember what Jesus might do, most often allow our basic instincts to control and we answer hate with hate.

The attitude becomes: You want to preach hate? Okay, we will preach hate of you for preaching hate. We will attack you physically to show you hate is not the answer…


Now I hear people going completely off the reservation and trying to pass laws against Nazism in America.

No. Most emphatically, NO!

To go down the road of censorship is a treacherous and slippery slope and once undertaken can only lead to more of the same until we become a monotonic nation best reflected in the pages of Orwell’s classic, 1984. If you believe in freedom, you believe in freedom for all.

The heroes who’ve defended the Constitution in the past with the ultimate sacrifice did so NOT to ensure that we could pick or choose who can come, who can talk, what can be thought, what can be said… You include ALL this in “freedom” or you have no freedom at all.

If some group wishes to preach hate… Let them! But if they grow violent, shut them down. If they speak violence and yet do so peacefully, who cares? If you start the violence against them – who has actually won?

Let them peacefully assemble and – if you somehow feel the counter-argument must be made – do so at some other place, at some other time. To try and shout some other group down is usually called incitement to riot. (and in this case it would apply to the protestors against the alt-right march)

Don’t you realize that by violently opposing them you have strengthened their arguments? If you want to marginalize them, diminish them, then do not attempt infringing on their freedoms.

Trying to shout them down is a strategy from weakness.

America has overcome these sorts of things before. When I grew up we had just recovered from the Red terror crackdowns. It is not an America I should want to return to.

If we are not going to be free, then let’s just admit it, bring it out in the open, and tell the ghost of Mister Jefferson (at whose campus this incident occurred) that we no longer support his dreams of equality and freedom and the essential goodness in Man. Tell him we reject everything the Founding Fathers stood for. Tell him he and his patriots died for nothing because there are some ideologies we simply cannot abide.

Like freedom of thought.


The Problem of Illegals

October 20, 2013


I understand a lot about this issue as I was born and raised in Texas and spent twenty-five years of my life in Arizona where the wall against the illegals could not be built fast enough, it seems.

Not only did I grow up with many Hispanic friends, my wife is the granddaughter of two illegal immigrants as well. Her grandfather came across the border at age eight to make a life for himself and met his wife when her family skipped across the border when she was fourteen.

They raised ten kids and many grandkids who have become valuable neighbors and productive citizens including doctors, accountants, and lawyers. And my wife, of course.

The problem with the illegals is more involved than simply trying to keep them out. The will to survive is what drives them northward, into the land of milk and honey, the United States.

Of course, their country could become a better place too if our big monied interests would quit their manipulations of the markets and politicians in that country.

No, I don’t see it as any sort of conspiracy but I do see it as a business model that has worked remarkably well. So well that it has pressured the citizens of Mexico to leave their dwindling economic system for one that is superior.

It is a problem we have created on our own, a problem made by our own system.

We bled their country to make ours greater, then we object when they are drawn to the light.

Shallow Differentiations

August 25, 2013

I grew up in the late 50’s and the turbulent 60’s.

When the Civil Rights movement came along, I marched for the cause. I was not the only white person in the marches – although our number was a decided minority in those activities – but it seemed the right thing to do.

For some strange reason, I saw no sense in the entire “race” issue.

My German grandfather was a Southern Baptist minister and many of the churches in which he preached were predominantly black parishes. Whenever we visited, we attended the church he was currently ministering.

The parishioners were more animated than the usual church we visited in Maryland and the singing of the hymns was quite a bit more vibrant.

And, as we usually visited in the middle of June, we helped celebrate Granddad’s birthday, which just happened to fall on Juneteenth. He always threw a huge picnic for the church with fried chicken and homemade ice cream.

That was my background. The idea that the color of skin meant anything was a foreign concept.

Our neighbors in Maryland were the first interracial couple I ever met.

So, it was a little odd when I saw the reaction of my first wife a few years later, when a dark-skinned boy walked our daughter home from school.

I was out front working on the car that day and thanked the young man for walking her home and we talked for a couple of minutes – his name was Alex and he was grinning ear to ear – before the wife came out and hustled the daughter into the house.

After the fellow left, I went inside to see what the agitation was about.

My wife was explaining to our six year old girl that having that sort of person as a friend was okay but not to let it go any further.

Flabbergasted, I asked her what she was talking about. The two kids were only six years old. What was she so afraid of?

“You wouldn’t want your daughter to marry one of them, would you?”

Amazingly, we were still married for six more years.

Why should skin color even matter? There are all different shades of white, brown, and black. Trying to separate them out seems a pointless task.

I still cannot understand that way of thinking.

The “N” Word: “Nonsense”

June 21, 2013


Several months ago, Gwyneth Paltrow got in a bit of hot water for using the “N” word. Many negroes/colored people/African-Americans/blacks complained about her using the term even if it was to a close friend who happened to be black and a rapper.

Today, I hear that Paula Deen has been sued and fired from her television show for allegedly using the “N” word some seven years ago – which she denies.

I have always disliked hearing any slurs used regardless of the target and in this country there have been a lot of bigots using a lot of various racial/religious/sexual slurs. Sad but true.

In this case it has been confusing to me to know exactly which label to use as it has changed over the years. It used to be “Negro” (as in United Negro College Fund [UNCF]) or “Colored People” (as in National Association for the Advancement of Colored People [NAACP]).

Somewhere it changed to “African-American” (as in Council on African American Affairs [CAAA]) and then to “Black” (as in Black Entertainment Television” [BET]).

I can think of no other racial identity that been so mercurial, so fluid in so short a span of time.

But the part of this that is so disturbing today is that the “N” term is used quite widely, everyday on the streets of America, in malls, grocery stores and movie theaters. I hear it often. Yes, it is used by the same Black people who object to its use!

They claim it is fine unless it is used by a white person.

I really hate to break it to everyone but that is called racism. When you say something is all right for one race to use but not another, that is discriminating due to race, pure and simple.

It is objectionable to hear the “N” term whether it is spoken by a Black, an Hispanic, a Native American, a Caucasian, an African American, an Italian American, a Greek, or trailer park trash, but until the rappers quit using the term and until the Blacks in America quit using the term when discussing one another, I cannot support any demonizing of any non-Black for using the term.

The insanity has to stop somewhere.

Snowden has shown the government is lying to us and spying on us, the banks have been manipulating the stock markets for years, and there is an unjust war going on overseas.

Why must some people focus on an alleged term used by a chef maybe some seven years ago?

Is there a complete disconnect with the priorities in this society?

Loosen Up, It’s Just Science

April 29, 2013

There are so many people who get irate when debating religion. The same is true for science.

If the article infers that “nature” may have a few more tricks up her sleeve than Man understands, the commenters will claim the writer is talking about religion.

Religionists and those of a more scientific bent seem to be missing the “flexible thinking” gene, if there is one.

I saw a recent article about the “God gene”, for those people who seem to have a predisposition to following that sort of thinking. So, I assume there must be a gene for those of the scientific mindset. I mean, if you think such things are ruled by something like genetics.

In the old days, what passed for “science” would today be called “philosophy of science”. People developing anything from the knowledge learned were called “artisans”.

Today, it is a little different. Even the technicians, developers, and engineers are included in the grouping of “scientists”. Yes, the discipline has moved away from the idea of merely observing nature to gain a greater understanding of life – though this is still done in many areas – most are concerned with how it can be manipulated for our benefit. Well, of course! That’s where the money is.

Science has always been knowledge and the studies toward that end. Today, many say science is “truth” but that was never its goal.

There is a famous quote by Isaac Asimov that I love: “The most exciting phrase to hear in science, the one that heralds new discoveries, is not ‘Eureka!’ but ‘That’s funny…'”

It sounds as if something unexpected is what he was talking about. Unexpected and not something already supported by all the theories.

I find it very sad, especially around the web, that there are so many commenters railing again writers and websites for being such obvious idiots!

These types of people act like they know-it-all. In other words, they are not scientists.

And their flaming comments can be ignored.

Dangerous Black Men (a.k.a. Racial Profiling)

April 5, 2013


I have seen killers released from prison after only a few years behind bars. Not the high-profile cases, of course, but some of the smaller or non-profiled ones.

Then we come to those most heinous of crimes, dog-fighting. Yes, Michael Vick served three years for such a hideous crime. Thus proving that not all celebrities are coddled in our judicial system.

And then there is Wesley Snipes, serving three years for tax evasion, proving once again that it is not nice to try and fool Uncle Sugar.

Still, it seems there is some disparity in their sentences.

Milken, the junk-bond king, served two years after stealing tons of money. Sure he paid a billion back but is still a billionaire. Snipes was cheated… but then his crime was against the government, not a bunch of retired middle class people investing their retirement funds.

And then there is Loeb brothers and Enron and… well, the list goes on and on, but you get the point.

Black males – including celebrities – are getting the shaft.

Is it all some bizarre form of “backlash” for the OJSimpson trial.

You know, where everyone says he was actually guilty?

Well, he wasn’t. In this country, the jury decides innocence and guilt, and they declared him innocent. So, regardless of how much you know, or think you know about the case, the man IS innocent of the crime because the jury declared it so.

But the punishments handed down for most of the blacks in the system seem to have been a fact long before the OJ trial occurred.

It seems to be a case of racial profiling.

Leaning In May Not Be the Answer

April 2, 2013


Many people much wiser than I have already observed that it is next-to-impossible to change any entrenched system from within.

The only way to change it is to built a better system outside the first and make the other obsolete.

It works in science, in business, and in government.

Ron Paul attempted to change the latter from within but his was a single voice in the wilderness for thirty years without success.

And it is unfortunate that in terms of government, the “making the other obsolete” usually entails a violent revolution.

In the business world, that sort of chaos is not necessary. Simply starting a newer better system of business that operates successfully is enough to win the day.

Businesses are, if nothing else, very concerned with staying competitive and if it requires some major overhaul then that is where they will go.

In the comedy film “Crazy People”, Dudley Moore played an advertising man who had gotten slightly unhinged and was committed to an institution.

When it was discovered his wacky ad campaigns based on truth were actually successful, others tried to imitate his techniques and it required a quantum leap many were unable to make.

So trying to get more women involved at the highest levels of management is a great idea. Just don’t try and do it in the business models being currently used.

Sheryl Sandberg has written a book about how to get more women to the higher levels in government and business. I’ve heard all her suggestions before and it is basically: act more like a man. Do what men do to succeed.

Trying to make women be nothing more than surrogate men in dresses, utilizing the same tools and techniques that serve the male-driven system well, is not my idea of a good thing.

Years ago, a push began to “equalize” the situation by bringing more women into the top positions. There seemed to be early success but then the percentage seemed to stop rising. Efforts since then have not increased the numbers much. But the same thing happened in STEM careers. There is a huge push currently to bring more women into those fields as well but the numbers there have not changed in thirty years.

The reason why – in BOTH cases – is that all the women who can display those male traits have already succeeded in the male-dominated fields. Trying to get more women to act like men just isn’t going to cut the mustard. Now or at any time in the future. (Thank goodness!)

Maybe I’m wrong but I think women can work better being women, designing a completely different system based on their strengths rather than simply trying to imitate men.

What that would look like, I don’t know. But then, I’m not a woman. But I do know that men and women are different for a fundamental reason and it goes far beyond merely child-bearing.

They need to make a new, better system, and access the talents that are theirs alone.

We already have seen what the male-dominated system can do.

Parenting 101

March 5, 2013


Many parents read voraciously about “parenting” and how to do it correctly.

Many parents weigh in over the nature vs. nurture discussion wondering which is the correct methodology.

Many parents think they have done something wrong when their children do no turn out perfect.

Having raised five of the small critters and sent them out into the world as fledgling adults, I can tell you straight out:

We are not here to teach our children much of anything, we are here to learn from them.

Now before I hear the complaints come rolling in from the scientific set, I will throw you a bone. Yes, your genetics play a very large part in the creation of the child’s body.

But to think the child is the physical body is to make a quantum leap beyond all the wildest extrapolations of generations of philosophers. It has not been proven and it never will.

The person is pretty much fully formed at birth. I have seen behaviors displayed by children in their first month that showed what they would be as adults. And it had nothing to do with the parenting “skills” of their adult caregivers.

Yes, we are here to give them a safe environment to grow, to help guide them in their interests and so forth, but that’s really about it.

Our interactions with them show us who we are, our failings, our strengths, and where we need improvement in our lives.

It is true that we can model certain things for them but – believe me! – if they are not already so inclined, all the modeling and discipline in the world is not going to change them fundamentally.

Nurturing them, helping them, guiding them. It may not sound like much but even that is a full time job. And it keeps us on our toes.

As well as teaches us a little bit more about who we are.

And all those parents out there too busy with careers to actually get very involved in the raising of their kids, you can ignore this post.